Mutual Toleration
Mutual toleration is the democratic norm where opponents accept each other as legitimate, even with deep disagreements. It means treating rivals as co-equal citizens, not enemies to destroy, ensuring stability despite conflict.

Mutual toleration is a foundational norm in democratic systems where political opponents accept each other as legitimate participants, even when they hold deeply opposing views. It requires recognizing rivals not as enemies to be destroyed, but as co-equal citizens with a rightful place in governance, ensuring democratic stability despite conflict.
What this means in real life
A conservative and a progressive neighbor disagree sharply on taxes and immigration, yet both respect each other's right to vote, speak publicly, and organize politically without interference or hostility.
What it isn’t
Mutual toleration is not agreement or approval—you don't have to like or endorse someone's views. It's also not indifference; it's an active choice to permit difference despite genuine disagreement.
Commonly misused online
Often conflated with 'tolerance of intolerance'—people claim toleration requires accepting groups that would destroy toleration itself, when scholars argue toleration has limits and excludes those who reject democratic norms.